Showing posts with label Week 3. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Week 3. Show all posts

Friday, December 19, 2025

A Joy That Cannot Be Rushed

This morning I glanced over an article in the Atlantic entitled, “What if Our Ancestors Didn’t Feel Anything Like We Do?” It was about a team of historians who are researching how our ancestors might have experienced love, anger, fear, and sorrow. Not necessarily that they weren’t psychologically equal to us, but asking whether they had the words to label emotions and sensations like we do today.

For example, at the doctor, you might describe something as a “shooting pain.” Would a society before (or distant from) arrows and firearms understand this description?

This got me thinking about the plethora of emotions we find in the Advent narrative, and there indeed are many. From Zechariah and Elizabeth to Mary, Joseph, and everyone they knew, emotions ran the gamut from doubt and fear to joy and thanksgiving, and everything in between.

In her book, The Art of Living in Advent: 28 Days of Joyful Waiting, Sylvie Vanhoozer reflects on her childhood growing up in Provence, France, the deep Advent traditions tied to the pastoral landscape and slow rhythm of life. I think she gets close to how those in Ancient Israel may have experienced the first Advent; the first Christmas.

For she writes,

“The art of living in Advent is all about cultivating this sense of confident expectancy: Christ is coming, but he cannot be rushed.” (p.29)
It’s not uncommon this time of year, to hear the admonition, “slow down and savor the season.” But we don’t often think about Jesus’ speed, or lack thereof. God could have sent His son fully formed, beamed down from heaven. But instead, He chose to give Jesus the same journey as every earthly baby. What was nine more months, or thirty three years of waiting after 400 years of silence? 

God had something huge and miraculous in store for His people, much bigger than anyone could have hoped for or imagined. Yet the promise was fulfilled in the most unexpected way ever. 

I like the way Vanhoozer puts it: 
“The nativity scene takes place mid-story, but it recounts the birth of the one who is in truth the beginning and end of all stories.”

She goes on to say, “Advent, we have seen, is an integral part of a greater story when things happen at just the right time: ‘But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law’ (Galatians 4:4-5) . . . But be assured: God’s gift is worth waiting for.” (p. 29-30)

“Remember that your story is woven onto the larger tapestry of what God is doing in our world. Remember that being adventish means joyfully watching and waiting for Jesus’ advent to make sense of your life too.” (p. 40)

I often struggle with what it means to joyfully wait. But joy isn’t always displayed in bouncing happiness or jubilant expressions. Joy can be as simple as “a source or cause of delight.” And I have to believe the ancient world found delight much easier than we do today, with colored pixels floating before our eyes almost 24/7.

And so I adjust the phrase: to wait with delight. 
Mary and Elizabeth both felt it, at the leaping of the babies in their wombs. But before that, I trust they lived their lives delighting in the work and success of a harvest, the routine of a day well done, the rest of Sabbath after a long week of toil, the comfort of their communities and faith.

Vanhoozer is thinking along these lines when she writes,

“We live in cultures that have forgotten how to wait for things—life itself!—to grow. Instead of being a time of preparation or joyful anticipation, waiting is often something we unhappily endure. The art of living in Advent has therefore become a lost art . . . But there is always something to be done to tend what God is growing as we wait for Christ to come again. He will come at the right time. In the meantime, he has given us the gift of time—a time to grow in the grace and knowledge of Him, and a time to serve others.” (p.43)
I don’t know about you, but I find great delight in watching seedlings grow each Spring. It is miraculous, every time. Indeed, buying fully bloomed plants from the store are just as delightful, but there is something important that happens as one joyfully waits and participates in the growing process.

It was no accident that Jesus spent his first nine months as a human wrapped in embryonic fluid, sustained by nutrients Mary’s body provided. The fullness of time was not to be rushed. The fullness of Mary’s joy would not be rushed either.

Advent helps us become better watchers and waiters. We finish each season, better prepared to notice God’s presence and movement in our lives. And the waiting helps us remember that we are waiting for a greater Joy still to come. 

Vanhoozer says, “In Advent, we enter into the beginning of the fullness of time” (p.27). And some day soon, this weary world will rejoice because Christ has come again.



Tuesday, December 16, 2025

Rejoice, Rejoice, Emmanuel!

On Sunday we lit the third candle on the Advent wreath: the Gaudete (“rejoice!”) candle, the candle of joy.

My church has large pillar candles on a table, standing like sentinels, keeping watch over the season. But the traditional formation is a circle, a wreath. It is a reminder that Advent actually marks the beginning of the church year calendar—a cyclical marking of time between holy-days and ordinary time.

For centuries the early church emphasized the celebration of Jesus’ resurrection as the most significant time of worship. It wasn’t until the 4th century that celebrations of Jesus’ birth were added as a regular church practice, and a tradition of Lent-like weeks of meditation and reflection were formed. Around the turn of the first millennium, the four Sundays leading up to December 25 were standardized, and Advent took its place as the beginning of the church year calendar.

But how does this help us see Advent joy?
With week three, we have a spiritual shift from the more somber weeks of Hope and Peace to the rejoicing that the birth of Jesus draws near. 

Indeed, in Luke 2:10-11, it is recorded:
“And the angel said to them, ‘Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great JOY that will be for all the people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.’”
So too, each year, as the circular year goes round again, we are drawn to remember that Advent is not only a celebration of Jesus’ birth, but the day when He will come again.

In his article, The Neglected Meaning of Advent, Ryan Griffith writes and quotes:
“We may neglect Advent’s future-orientation in our contemporary celebration, but, intriguingly, the theme of Jesus’s second coming runs deep in our favorite Christmas carols. Isaac Watts’s (1674–1748) “Joy to the World” celebrates Jesus’s glorious return and his future kingdom where sin and sorrow are no more (Revelation 21:4):

    Joy to the world! the Savior reigns;
    Let men their songs employ;
    While fields and floods, rocks, hills, and plains
    Repeat the sounding joy,
    Repeat the sounding joy,
    Repeat, repeat the sounding joy.

    No more let sins and sorrows grow,
    Nor thorns infest the ground;
    He comes to make his blessings flow
    Far as the curse is found,
    Far as the curse is found,
    Far as, far as the curse is found.

Finally, consider John Mason Neale and Henry Coffin’s “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel,” a translation of the ancient Great Antiphons:

    O come, Thou Key of David, come
    And open wide our heavenly home;
    Make safe the way that leads on high,
    And close the path to misery.
    Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
    Shall come to thee, O Israel.

    O come, Desire of nations, bind
    All peoples in one heart and mind;
    Bid envy, strife, and quarrels cease;
    Fill the whole world with heaven’s peace.
    Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel
    Shall come to thee, O Israel.

History illuminates the richness of Advent’s celebration and anticipation. And one practical way of recovering the deep joy of this future-oriented season might just be to believe what we sing.”

This is challenging and convicting. For me, this is a season where it’s hard to see big Joys. I try to notice tiny joys each day: like the sun shining through my plants, the taste of a delicious meal, the smile of a child as they notice you (children’s librarian here!). I truly believe God is in all those moments. But then I open a social media app or look at a webpage full of news headlines and all I see is how fractured and devoid of joy this world really is. Where is God or joy in hate, murder, racism, and war?

As a part of their yearly Advent devotional announcement, Desiring God posted these lines on their social media:

“Advent is a season of groaning and gladness.
We are glad that Christ has come.
We groan for Christ to come again.
Advent is the time in between.”
This hit hard. Advent, the time in between, reminds us that though we live in a world broken by sin, we have a Savior whose life and return will bookend eternity. And until we see that day, we can truthfully fill our days with equal parts longing and rejoicing. We can hold space to mourn, and also rejoice that we serve a God who gave of Himself fully, so that we could experience His unfathomable mercy and grace.

Rejoice, rejoice, Emmanuel! God is with us.